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[cobsonishere]

im 18 years old and a NEET, i dropped out because my mom moved us to a new country and i just couldn't handle the new school, i was going to start a course but it was full of shitskins so i quit that. im starting another one in 5 months but don't know how to fill that time, right now i have filled 8 months. i spend my days rotting on the sharty 'tube and vidya and occaisonley going for a walk ( but its not enough)

 

[worldatwar]

get a job

 

[supersage]

Apply for industrial jobs, they always hire. There is no shame in working jobs like janitorial positions or garbage positions either.

 

[Apeson]

Join the military

 

[Sylwia]

this title of the thread scared me for 0.1 second at a glance

 

[supersage]

this title of the thread scared me for 0.1 second at a glance

quick hide its da constabulary

 

[Sylwia]

im 18 years old and a NEET, i dropped out because my mom moved us to a new country and i just couldn't handle the new school, i was going to start a course but it was full of shitskins so i quit that. im starting another one in 5 months but don't know how to fill that time, right now i have filled 8 months. i spend my days rotting on the sharty 'tube and vidya and occaisonley going for a walk ( but its not enough)

allow the days to bleed into one another

 

[Apeson]

https://www.linkedin.com/

 

[supersage]

allow the days to bleed into one another

if youre actually a neet how do you even like afford internet n stuff

 

[Sylwia]

if youre actually a neet how do you even like afford internet n stuff

really don't go into specifics with much but I'm just in a situation where things are handled, though it's not the most enjoyable lifestyle not having a job since I don't eat as I should and cannot afford to do the things that would make me feel content, had a job a few months ago but I ended up quitting and for fair reason.

 

[Sylwia]

Being a shut in and without a job is so mind numbing to an almost unbearable degree since the days bleed into one another to a point where you feel nearly stuck in a moment of time, at least that's how it feels for me. I forced myself to get a job several months ago and held it for nearly a year, but after quitting and going back to my self destructive habits of isolation and poor routines, I would advice anyone in this position to honestly force yourself to find work - or a way out of the house in general, even if it's a routine walk a day or visiting a café. I need to heed my own words, but everything boils down to your state of mind, if you don't like that you are spending your days rotting - then do something to change it.

 

[worldatwar]

do neets shower?

 

[Apeson]

Being a shut in and without a job is so mind numbing to an almost unbearable degree since the days bleed into one another to a point where you feel nearly stuck in a moment of time, at least that's how it feels for me. I forced myself to get a job several months ago and held it for nearly a year, but after quitting and going back to my self destructive habits of isolation and poor routines, I would advice anyone in this position to honestly force yourself to find work - or a way out of the house in general, even if it's a routine walk a day or visiting a café. I need to heed my own words, but everything boils down to your state of mind, if you don't like that you spend your days rotting - then do something to change it.

I feel like this during breaks between semesters often.

 

[Sylwia]

do neets shower?

yes, not having a job doesn't mean someone has poor hygienic habits.

 

[worldatwar]

yes, not having a job doesn't mean someone has poor hygienic habits.

i always thought those two correlated to one another

 

[Sylwia]

i always thought those two correlated to one another

depends on the person really, there's sometimes a few days in a row I'll miss a shower since I just rot in bed on my phone or sometimes sleep more than fourteen hours at a time but I would say that being a neet doesn't instantly make a person lack basic hygiene. Could also be a gender diff because maybe neet men are different, me personally I can't go more than a handful of days without getting clean and have a lot of skin, hair and perfume product.

 

[Sloppyjakky`]

if youre actually a neet how do you even like afford internet n stuff

neetbuxxing

 

[worldatwar]

depends on the person really, there's sometimes a few days in a row I'll miss a shower since I just rot in bed on my phone or sometimes sleep more than fourteen hours at a time but I would say that being a neet doesn't instantly make a person lack basic hygiene. Could also be a gender diff because maybe neet men are different, me personally I can't go more than a handful of days without getting clean and have a lot of skin, hair and perfume product.

tbh i practice a lot of hygiene. this extends to me cleaning up the house. i think it was instilled into me by my mother, since my mom practices a lot of hygiene. hell, i even shower twice a day because of her(i'm not complaining, since i like being clean).

 

[ザイバツ]

Online college lole. Very cheap (especially if you apply for financial aid), and a very flexible schedule. Also consider signing up for a martial arts school, it will keep you active and out of the house at least twice a week as well as improve your physical strength and health

 

[cobsonishere]

thanks for the reppeys, to clarify im gonna stop being a neet in 5 months (taking a course) but i mainly want to know what to do during that time. (live in an apartment)