How to forget about somebody you used to like?

[jim🅱️o_fans_arent_white]

I used to like someone IRL, but me and them being friends has brought me WAY more harm than good for reasons I don't want to disclose, how do I forget about their friendship?
Too personal? Maybe, but I would actually want to listen for your advice.

 

[_account]

Something something my lawyer something

 

[StudioExcréments]

I used to like someone IRL, but me and them being friends has brought me WAY more harm than good for reasons I don't want to disclose, how do I forget about their friendship?
Too personal? Maybe, but I would actually want to listen for your advice.

Xanax

 

[Hillel Hartmann]

I used to like someone IRL, but me and them being friends has brought me WAY more harm than good for reasons I don't want to disclose, how do I forget about their friendship?
Too personal? Maybe, but I would actually want to listen for your advice.

sewer side

 

[angkar]

I used to like someone IRL, but me and them being friends has brought me WAY more harm than good for reasons I don't want to disclose, how do I forget about their friendship?
Too personal? Maybe, but I would actually want to listen for your advice.

just heckin stop thinking about them, you'll forget about them eventually

 

[Bobby Baccalà]

It depends on how long you were friends with them with and how close you actually were. Were you just normal friends or best friends? Obviously if it's the latter then good luck trying to forget about them.

 

[jim🅱️o_fans_arent_white]

just heckin stop thinking about them, you'll forget about them eventually

I wish it was as simple as that, but I genuinely felt very close to them (not gay, I'm not in love with men)

It depends on how long you were friends with them with and how close you actually were. Were you just normal friends or best friends? Obviously if it's the latter then good luck trying to forget about them.

Around a year or so, he's nothing special but I, for some reason that even I can't explain (maybe guilt), cared alot about him

 

[_account]

I wish it was as simple as that, but I genuinely felt very close to them (not gay, I'm not in love with men)

Around a year or so, he's nothing special but I, for some reason that even I can't explain (maybe guilt), cared alot about him

Cut your losses and call it a learning experience.
This way you'll be a better judge of character in the future.

 

[cute bunnies WABAG]

either don't interact with them, wait until you forget them, or replace them

 

[jim🅱️o_fans_arent_white]

Cut your losses and call it a learning experience.
This way you'll be a better judge of character in the future.

I see, I wouldn't call him a bad person per say, just that us being friends harmed me, a ton
I also wouldn't consider him a parasite, but can be a bit of a manipulator (not in an evil way, he doesn't want me to feel guilty)

 

[angkar]

I wish it was as simple as that, but I genuinely felt very close to them

yeah i can kinda relate. i also had a very close irl friend of mine to who i stopped talking to. even though i never actually forget people i used to talk to, i've simply learned to move on and stop caring about them. that's how it works for me

 

[_account]

I see, I wouldn't call him a bad person per say, just that us being friends harmed me, a ton
I also wouldn't consider him a parasite, but can be a bit of a manipulator (not in an evil way, he doesn't want me to feel guilty)

Are you a woman?
MAKE YOUR MIND UP!
If he's causing you problems then excommunicate him.
If you're the reason you're having problems then fix it and keep contact.

 

[jim🅱️o_fans_arent_white]

Are you a woman?
MAKE YOUR MIND UP!
If he's causing you problems then excommunicate him.
If you're the reason you're having problems then fix it and keep contact.

I'm not a woman
The problems arise from what others think about said person
I told him to "fix x, y, and z", and I admit we had improvements
But people don't think that way, and others' thoughts haunt me, for reasons I don't even know
I want to go back to a state of either neutrality or passive hatred
Sorry for sounding like this, I never admitted to anyone IRL because my parents wouldn't get it (we're not in the same age group) but I've been keeping this for over a year and I want it to stop

 

[cute bunnies WABAG]

I want to go back to a state of either neutrality or passive hatred

you'll need to distance yourself slowly from that person, start by talking to him less and less until you guys dont interact with eachother, try interacting with your other friends or friend groups (preferably without him in them) so you can try and replace him too

 

[StudioExcréments]

Are you a woman?
MAKE YOUR MIND UP!

Hatefull chud phase egg >Nate... you need to pick your genderidentity, choose your gender so i can jack off while baiting you
valid transVVoman <

 

[Itransheartblox]

I used to like someone IRL, but me and them being friends has brought me WAY more harm than good for reasons I don't want to disclose, how do I forget about their friendship?
Too personal? Maybe, but I would actually want to listen for your advice.

leave the past behind o algo

 

[jim🅱️o_fans_arent_white]

you'll need to distance yourself slowly from that person, start by talking to him less and less until you guys dont interact with eachother, try interacting with your other friends or friend groups (preferably without him in them) so you can try and replace him too

Maybe
I'm not going to ask for everyone who cares to change their thoughts about said person, that's an impossible task that could backfire hard
So even if I had to betray a friend, atleast my sanity levels would go back to normal

leave the past behind o algo

Too bad that it's not the past, it's still the present, albeit in a lesser scale

 

[blackops2]

I used to like someone IRL, but me and them being friends has brought me WAY more harm than good for reasons I don't want to disclose, how do I forget about their friendship?
Too personal? Maybe, but I would actually want to listen for your advice.

just don't think about him

 

[StudioExcréments]

just don't think about him

What if hes living rent free in OP's head?

 

[jim🅱️o_fans_arent_white]

just don't think about him

i'm doing something new
i'm trying to fool myself into thinking that my friend and the person who indirectly brings me harm are different people
also talking with him less