ive do a lot of self-reflecting and i feel like this question almost just cannot be answered solely by ones-self. theres a lot of factors that play into the perception of being "decent" such as personal and cultural values so what it means to be decent varies between person to person. this kinda leads in overton's window but from here on i'd be just words words words. all to say, i try my hardest to be kind and supportive to those around me without being a doormat, and i care and value my relationships i've built. i think that's what you should really value most. i reflect on my own actions a lot and i can acknowledge when i've made a mistake and apologize with sincerity. in my mind this is what it means to be decent.
or something or whatever who gives a shit anyway everyone kinda sucks kill people with rocks and such.