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Long term cuckold relationship?
I was in a relationship with a BPD woman for over 6 years. I was her 6th bf with most of her previous boyfriend's lasting for about a year. We hit it off Well and I fell deeply in love with her. She cheated on me in the first month of our relationship and was apologetic and suicidal about it. So I shrugged it off.
Over time I feel more in love with her and developed a deep sense of attachment with her. She cheated on me again after the 1st year and the same story transpired. She had started to lose interest in me and I kept trying to win her back. Back then I wasn't aware of the term bpd. I eventually agreed to let her see other guys sometimes if she would not develop feelings into them. She wanted me to stay monogamous which I agreed to.
Though as we realized it was hard for her to not get emotionally attached to the other person. While she would go and meet guys on dates, she would invariably fall in love and out of it in the period of a year. I had gotten accustomed to it by then since the good times were so good.
The last 2 years of our relationship were lost distance since she moved to a different country and even though I was okay with cuckold , she cheated on me with my best friend for months who lived in the same city. I found about it much later though. She said she felt lonely and got herself a fwb but we would still talk everyday. One day out of the blue she dumped me and started a relationship with another guy who she said didn't like sharing. It's been a year now and she's now married to him. She cut off all contact with me and I still miss her. I felt quite hurt since I was willing to change myself to make it work and I did. I still keep thinking of what I could have done to make it work.
Just wondering if anyone here has been in a long term cuckold relationship with a BPD. Does it have any chances of working out.
I was in a relationship with a BPD woman for over 6 years. I was her 6th bf with most of her previous boyfriend's lasting for about a year. We hit it off Well and I fell deeply in love with her. She cheated on me in the first month of our relationship and was apologetic and suicidal about it. So I shrugged it off.
Over time I feel more in love with her and developed a deep sense of attachment with her. She cheated on me again after the 1st year and the same story transpired. She had started to lose interest in me and I kept trying to win her back. Back then I wasn't aware of the term bpd. I eventually agreed to let her see other guys sometimes if she would not develop feelings into them. She wanted me to stay monogamous which I agreed to.
Though as we realized it was hard for her to not get emotionally attached to the other person. While she would go and meet guys on dates, she would invariably fall in love and out of it in the period of a year. I had gotten accustomed to it by then since the good times were so good.
The last 2 years of our relationship were lost distance since she moved to a different country and even though I was okay with cuckold , she cheated on me with my best friend for months who lived in the same city. I found about it much later though. She said she felt lonely and got herself a fwb but we would still talk everyday. One day out of the blue she dumped me and started a relationship with another guy who she said didn't like sharing. It's been a year now and she's now married to him. She cut off all contact with me and I still miss her. I felt quite hurt since I was willing to change myself to make it work and I did. I still keep thinking of what I could have done to make it work.
Just wondering if anyone here has been in a long term cuckold relationship with a BPD. Does it have any chances of working out.
